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What is holding you back?

What is holding you back?

What is stopping you from doing the things you should be doing?
Is it fear, worries or you are am looking for social approvals for doing something important? Questioning assumptions, overcoming fears will bring closer to your dreams.You need to identify your fears to overcome. Find out answers to following
• What do I fear the most ?
• What would I do if I am not afraid of anything?
• What do I hate the most ?
• Do I worry too much about others?
• Am I doing what I truly want to do?
• Am I more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
• What would I do differently if I knew nobody would judge me?
Only when you discover the things which are stopping you to take important steps, only then you can eliminate such obstacles.
Your discovery will enable you to remove stop signs and clear the path you wish to pursue.
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The mistakes we make in our everyday life

• We are hardwired to make these mistakes • Few biases are simply evolutionary • These errors affect all of us including the bright ones • Experience is just not enough to overcome • but expertise is required to recognize and overcome

Few of biases as below · Anchoring - When an individual depends too heavily on an initial piece of information during decision making · Fixed pie - When we assume that our interests conflict with the other party's interests and we play adversarial · Framing - When we decide on our options differently when the options are presented with positive or negative connotations · Vividness – When we pay attention to strong features at the expense of less, that could be more impactful · Over confidence – When our subjective confidence is greater than the objective accuracy · Escalation – When initial decision is followed up with an irrational decision to justify the initial decision

Few ways to mitigate these biases are · Learn to recognize the bias · Use slow, effortful and logical thinking (System 2) · Avoid fast, automatic and effortless thinking (System 1) · Avoid negotiations which are thrust upon when not ready · Learn through use of stories, examples, exercises · Bring an outsider perspective